From Luzhou city to Luzhou XuYongXian double warburg Mani town, the road up to over 170 km, including 110 km highway, 60 km Highway, 5 km of rural roads. Last month, a 10-year-old child three times a lone figure appeared on this long road. He carries 245 yuan, "large sums of money", also penniless; he had been on the bus, also on foot forward ...... his parents' house in town of departure, the destination is the country of his grandfather grandmother.
Time and time again to be back, again and again starting. Children so persistent,
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Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporter Zhang Bingyao
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10-year-old and 9 years
This year, Ruirui 10 years old. But in the past nine years, he has been living together with grandparents. His two months, Mom and Dad went to work in the field
The countryside and the city
Well in town! Good schools, teachers teach well, play well with the students. But Ruirui misses the countryside grandparents,
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1st home
Surmise 245 yuan tuition to buy gifts for grandparents
Everything does not have any signs, but every time the same destination to escape Mani town --- Luzhou XuYongXian double warburg --- There Ruirui grandparents. Ruirui also lived for nine years in many places.
February 17 this year, a large North grade 4 students Ruirui, carries 245 yuan tuition to go to school enrollment. Day 14 am, Ruirui figure has appeared in 170 km away double warburg. Johnson carrying a child in her hand smoke, a pack Vivian soy milk and a kite. This is a gift Ruirui for grandfather, grandmother and little cousin to buy.
Huang first memories of my grandmother, grandson suddenly appear, let her heart suddenly surprised,
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Ruirui who was left more than 20 yuan of money. Ruirui dig the money to the grandmother, the grandmother did not want to. Later, Ruirui led several small cousin to the village shop to buy things. At that time the grandfather Zhang Rui Hong cards are small shops, in addition to the little cousin who bought the food, Ruirui also deliberately gave my grandfather bought a bottle of water. Throughout the process, Ruirui did not give myself to buy things.
Grandparents learned Ruirui secretly fled after the truth, only spent a day in a double warburg, Ruirui was my grandfather returned to the Luzhou.
2nd home
Penniless take the bus driver to take him to the police station
At school, Ruirui only quiet for two days. February 23, Ruirui figure, again in the xuyong.
Because no money, came to Luzhou Square station,
http://image.letuijian...mp;tid=1237210&extra=, Ruirui deceived bus driver,
http://bbs.hbqcw9.com/...iewthread&tid=6499648, "my family in xuyong pick me up. Wait until then to give money." To xuyong after, left, right, and so do not come Ruirui family. In desperation, the bus driver had to Ruirui to xuyong West outside the police station. After the news that his son, frantic parents from the police station to reclaim Ruirui Luzhou. "Until the police station after the phone call, we know that children and fled when the children go to school that day, there is no exception and we always thought he was good in school." Zhang Yulian emotion.
3rd home
30 kilometers on foot roadside sleep a night
Ruirui a recent escape occurred in the last week.
Zhang Yulian said, put at noon after school, Ruirui slipped out of school. Along the highway all the way to the xuyong direction "advance." After hiking over 30 kilometers on the highway, arriving near the Naxi canal dam, due to the cold and hungry,
http://www.symbianity....opic.php?f=8&t=352602, Ruirui chose backtrack. Across the highway at high speed from the Naxi. At this point, it was already dark. Ruirui on the roadside to sleep one night. The next day, the first city in the Naxi begging to a dollar, and then took the bus to return Luzhou.
Back Luzhou after Ruirui his uncle Li Zhunhai first home. Ruirui had asked: "Why go back to another person?" Ruirui answer to dumbfounding:. "There is life there is hope" and uncle for first home Why, Switzerland Rui told Li Tunhai, worried home beaten, "Uncle, you're with me all the way to the Well there you are, my mom and dad reasonable estimate can not wipe me." Ruirui case told Li Zhunhai.
Children, why do you go
Want grandparents, dreams are they
Chengdu Business Daily: Why do you always go home to run it?
Ruirui: grandparents want the. Want former classmates. I'm dreaming of Luzhou, have several times dreamed of my grandmother. I also dreamed that I walk on the highway scene when. Above the car down a few people, chasing me. Then my grandmother appeared. I only remember so much. Later I'll remember.
Chengdu Business Daily: because home than Luzhou city, please?
Ruirui: Luzhou good. Here's a good school, the teachers teach or. My classmates and relationships here these days, I also became official, the team leader, the following tube several people yet. These days time, I also went to a small partner kite flying, put the road in Riverside.
Chengdu Business Daily: What do you thinking about grandparents?
Ruirui: grandfather eye pain, every day I helped him eye drops. Two years ago a stone grandmother, injured his foot,
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Chengdu Business Daily: Why worry about it?
Ruirui: good, give change difficult economic conditions grandparents. Unlike in Luzhou,
http://hnjfmy.cn/news/html/?123403.html, there is good money. Cousin grandparents often find money. Grandparents sometimes give me money, but I did not want to. Spring Festival this year, where I went to my grandmother, my grandmother gave me money, I do not want to.
Chengdu Business Daily: Chinese New Year to go where my grandmother did, playing for a few days?
(Saying here, Ruirui's mother Zhang Yulian inserted a "grandmother playing three days, my grandfather playing at home for four days.")
Ruirui: "Where there three days, only two and a half seasons playing I want to, but my mother to come back to the shop, I had to follow all the way back!."
Chengdu Business Daily: home so far, you're so small, you know how to ride it?
Ruirui: 216 buses can go to the Square station. There had to xuyong bus. Xuyong has two stations. The following long walk from the station up to the terminal station, where there are buses directly back to the fort a double. Very convenient.
Chengdu Business Daily: a man walking on the highway, also sleep a night. Are you afraid? There is no crying?
Ruirui: This Can not tell you?
Chengdu Business Daily: Do you think Mom and Dad pro point or grandparents pro that?
Ruirui glanced at the mother replied: "You'd better not ask me this topic I do not want to answer.."
(Aside ACUPUNCTURE help his son answered the question: "Ruirui and grandmother slept every night together, he and his grandparents will certainly be pro some.")
Chengdu Business Daily: Do you worry about running out mom and dad are not afraid of it?
Ruirui
Silence) ("If he knew enough." Ruirui mother beside supplement)
Dialogue here, the Ruirui suddenly ran away. While running side, said:. "Mom, these people specifically asked oh so boring I do not want to answer the question above is also a pen in a small book with them in mind I do not want to say.."
Family, difficult transition period
Prior to busy making money, ignoring the child
Ruirui father Xiongwen Hong Luzhou Liquor Industry Development Zone in an enterprise to work, the mother Zhang Yulian in Luzhou city opened a dry-cleaning shop. Yesterday falls on a weekend, Ruirui in the dry cleaning shop to accompany his mother. Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Lai Dao and Gan Xidian, the reporter noted, bought a bottle from the outside after the green tea beverage, Ruirui first poured a cup with a cup in front of his mother, then himself began to drink.
Last September, nine-year-old to Luzhou, Luzhou completely unfamiliar with, after a school,
http://www.nvzhuang.co...bbs/thread-19044-1-1.html, he dozed off in the bus, sitting on the station, till 216 Greenview Road bus terminal. Family looking for, at 7 pm, Ruirui has appeared in the door. Ruirui said he had no money, only to walk home, all the way along the 216 bus chase car ass, and then recovered to come.
After the first flight home, and cousin Among Ruirui had had exchanges Ruirui tell Among:. ". Several times to think badly of a grandmother who secretly hiding in bed crying" Yesterday afternoon, Among the Chengdu Business newspaper reporter confirmed the details. In addition, Ruirui had also told the many special: "grandparents poor economic conditions, the difficulties do not always earn them money.."
Mani double warburg town, 62-year-old and 64-year-old Zhang Rui Xiang Huang first couple, is a microcosm of life in the village a lot of elderly people left behind.
Because all the children of migrant workers, home of nearly 10 acres of land all by two elderly farming. In addition, even after being picked Ruirui, two elderly people currently with four grandchildren child. Among the oldest, is also only 11 years old this year. "Busy season, the mountains have to work at dawn. Dark to go home, very hard." Huang first.
For Ruirui,
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And loose compared grandparents, parents will have to crack a lot. Because the job is completed well, last year was led Luzhou parents, Ruirui has repeatedly encountered physical pain, "ass kids played with a coat hanger." Zhang Yulian said.
For his son, Zhang Yulian heart full of guilt,
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Psychological experts
Parents need to pay more to reshape the family
"Grandfather poor economic conditions at home; there is life there is hope --- I heard these words, how all feel like from a 10-year-old child's mouth, but that is the truth.." Ruirui mother ACUPUNCTURE to Chengdu Chinese Commercial News reporters Lian Lian and Gan Kai. Just accept the Chengdu Business Daily reporter interview, the district where the junior partner to the river called Ruirui kite flying, he ran up. Zhang Yulian said Ruirui although district arrived soon, but has a lot of friends, there are a lot of games are played,
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For Ruirui this behavior, director of the Sichuan Police College Counseling Center, associate professor of psychology Chen believes that "this is the 'stocking' and 'captive' difference. Now 10-year-old kid in town, the family had two blocks are on tenterhooks. parents give their children paving shop was very good, in fact, is not conducive to the child's growth. "
According to media reports, at present there are nearly 60 million children left behind, a survey showed that there are different degrees of psychological problems nearly 60 percent of the children left behind. These kids like forgotten flowers hard waiting parental care. Many working parents home once six months 16.7%, 46.7% of the home once a year, 26.7 percent of the home once a year, more than 10 percent two years before the home once. The vast majority of children left behind by the grandparents custody,
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Chen analysis, Ruirui is actually a microcosm of a lot of left-behind children grow up, "inter-generational dependency,
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Chen said that from there returned to their parents grandparents, Ruirui actually need a family transition period, "In this process, rude way of education, conflict can only increase the child inside. Correct approach, it should be pleasant to preach Parents need to spend more time each day and children together, reshape the family once the child and parents to re-establish a sense of dependence after, all problems will be solved. "
On education of children left behind, the famous Sun Yun Xiao education experts also believe that parents should keep children left emotional communication with children, this emotional communication is best kept at least once a week, in addition to academic achievement and physical health care, but also to asked the child's emotional state, so that children feel their parents for his love and attention. (Integrated )
National Action
Care for children left behind included "national new urbanization plan"
Xinhua News Agency yesterday's broadcast center, the State Council issued the "National new urbanization plan (2014-2020)", "planning", said the rapid development of urbanization process, a large agricultural population transfer is difficult to integrate into urban society, the public process lag. The emergence of new binary internal contradictions of urban, rural left-behind children, women and the elderly is becoming increasingly prominent.
"Plan" clearly stated: left-behind children in rural areas and improve care service system.
Xinhua News Agency reporters Zeng Zainian and Chu Caifang some left-behind children in China. Because parents are not at home a long time, the lack of support of children left behind mentally. A parent Guangxi plot yellow cloth Spring Township, said because of the lack of communication and exchange, his grandchildren and their parents are not pro, back when the New Year Spring Festival every year, do not let the parents hold. And interviewed more than left-behind children, told reporters that the number of parents every year to see only two or three times, so parents have strangeness, meet not know what to say.
China's urbanization is rapidly advancing. Guangxi Academy of Social Sciences Institute of Sociology weeks up to say, children left behind in the process of urbanization is the inevitable product of the education and management of children left behind is a long term project, the community, schools, teachers, parents should take the assistance , grooming, inspiring, emotional communication, etc., to enhance the care of children left behind, so they can feel the warmth of the growth.
Professor of Sociology at Peking University, believes that the process of urbanization had a left-behind children in the family is missing, educational guidance,
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CPC Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region Party School researcher Ling believed by the ball, implementation, improve relevant policies and laws,
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(Original title: With the city home to stay at home with my parents 10-year-old child three times away from home)
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